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How to Find a Wedding Photographer You Love
Vendor hunting can be difficult. Especially photography. Here’s some tips from a seasoned professional on how to find a wedding photographer you love.
I’m Kaylee from LaShay and Light Wedding Photography. I have a bachelors in photography and have been doing it for six years. Needless to say, I’ve seen hundreds of weddings and I’ve gotten a pretty good idea of how to plan a wedding. I was a bride at one and I understand the struggle. The hardest part is, of course, finding the perfect vendors to fit your dream and your budget. But fear not! I’m here to help you plan your wedding and teach you how to find a wedding photographer you’ll love.
How to Search
If you just search “photographers near me” or “wedding photographers in my area” all you’ll find are websites with really good SEO. The top picks on Google aren’t always the best ones for your needs, they’re just good at designing their website. If you’re wanting something particular, we need to refine what your searching. So here are some keywords to use to find a wedding photography that fits your aesthetic. This list, of course, is to give you some ideas. You can add anything you’d like.
- Romantic
- Documentary
- Cinematic
- Editorial
- Elevated
- Timeless
- Artistic
- Intentional
But what do all those mean?! Don’t worry, we’re going to break it down.
Romantic
Romantic really means a focus on intimacy. Those photos might look like a romance movie poster (think Pride & Prejudice). Romantic photographers will pose you and capture you in a certain way that captures the love and emotion you have for your spouse.
Documentary
Documentary photography is another way to say candid photography. It’s photography where things aren’t posed at all. The photographer is simply a fly on the wall and capturing the raw, genuine moments as they come.
Cinematic
Cinematic wedding photography really means that it looks like the photos belong in a movie. They’re often stylized, dramatic, with very purposeful composition.
Editorial
Editorial is the exact opposite of Documentary. Editorial wedding photography is highly posed with a clear art direction. Remember, posed doesn’t mean stiff (or at least it won’t with a good photographer). The photos will simply be very purposeful and artistic. It’ll look like something you’ll find on a magazine cover or in an art gallery. Personally, I’d say that my photography is a mix of romantic editorial and documentary. I like a good mix of both!
Elevated
Elevated is like adding a little bit of seasoning to your wedding. Imagine “your wedding but better”. This type of photographer will really highlight and enhance the prettiest parts of your wedding. Often, this means they’ll be editing out the wrinkles out of the Groom’s shirt or removing the smudges on the Bride’s makeup.
Timeless
This is a really big one, at least it is for me. Timeless wedding photography doesn’t rely on current trends. Their style will look good today as well as fifty years from now.
Artistic
This one’s similar to editorial, except there’s less of an emphasis on posed images. Keep in mind, an artistic wedding photographer might be an editorial one as well. So if you don’t like posed images, let them know before booking! Artistic photographers will have an emphasis on composition, color, and technique.
Intentional
This is a good, all around word to use to search with. With intentional wedding photographers, none of the photos will be there “just because”. Every photo will add to the story.
Meet with Wedding Photographers!
After you’ve used these keywords to find some wedding photographers, meet with them! I know, that’s a lot of effort but trust me, it’s worth it. Here’s an example. Imagine that you found a wedding photographer that fits your style and you’re drawn to their work. You immediately book them. On your wedding day, you meet your photographer for the first time and they’re burnt out, super impatient, and you get the sense that they don’t really care. Sure, your photos might still be amazing but when you look back on them, you can’t help but think about how you didn’t like your photographer.
I highly recommend meeting with photographers before booking them. It doesn’t even have to be in person, it can be over Zoom. You want to have a person that you feel comfortable around and know that they genuinely care about you and your wedding. No matter how good their portfolio is, first impressions are always a better judge of character.
Now I hope I didn’t scare you too much. Basically, you want to find someone that blends in well with your friends. They’re basically going to be your BFF on your wedding day so you should make sure they have good vibes.
Questions to ask
I think this is one of the best ways to find a wedding photographer. When you meet with them, ask these questions:
- What makes you stand out from other photographers?
- How do you personalize your work for my wedding day?
- How do make this an experience?
The last question is really one that not a lot of people consider. Experience is so, so important. When you think about your wedding photos 10 years from now, you probably won’t think about specific photos. Instead, you’ll remember clearly how you felt. It’s our jobs as wedding photographers to make you feel beautiful, happy, and madly in love on your big day. There’s certain things I do to make sure that my couples’ experiences feels special and specifically made for them. Make sure your wedding photographer does that too!
These, of course, shouldn’t be the only questions you should ask, they’re just my top 3 favorite. Check out this more extensive list and this one with unique but super important questions to ask.
Reviews
The number of reviews don’t necessarily matter. A person with thousands of reviews may not be as good of a fit as someone who has 10. What matters is the individual reviews. Before you book someone, read what other people have said. You might find underrated gems!
Summary: How to find a wedding photographer you LOVE!
I hope you now know how to find a wedding photographer, but not just any photographer – one that you absolutely love. Remember, you want to find someone that you really connect with. Someone honest, meaningful, and passionate about their work. Use keywords to help you search for specific styles and types of artists. Meet with them and don’t be afraid to ask questions. Check reviews and after you’ve had your shoot, don’t forget to leave one. Overall, use your gut and your heart.
I hope this helps you find a wedding photographer that you adore. If you feel connected to my work or anything I said, I would love to meet you! Feel free to contact me. There’s no pressure in booking; we can simply talk about your vision and see if we’re a good fit.
If this has helped you find your soul-photographer, let me know in the comments! Want some more advice on finding the right photographer? I highly recommend this article from Artifact Uprising.
xo chat soon, Kaylee
Nampa Wedding | Colorful Spring Wedding at Still Water Hollow
I shot the most elegant and colorful Nampa wedding!
Being in the middle of a classic Idaho Falls winter, I’ve found myself dreaming of spring. And as a cinematic wedding photographer, spring will always remind me of wedding season. This colorful Nampa wedding that I captured in the spring is absolutely stunning and it makes me so excited for the upcoming wedding season!
The Most Important Part of Your Wedding: Everything that Happens Beforehand
If you don’t know me, hi! I’m Kaylee. I’m an Idaho wedding photographer that specializes in timeless, romantic photography. But I believe that photos are a small portion of my actual job. It starts months and months before your big day. As for this couple, we’re going to call them Keith and Millie, their wedding was in May but my work started in January. We started with hopping onto Zoom. This part is so important in planning; talking (virtually) face to face helps me to get to know them and to truly understand their vision. After the Zoom meeting we had a stunning engagement session in Melba, Idaho.
As you can see from the photo, this session was gorgeous. I love it when my couples book an engagement session with me (there’s a reason why you get a free engagement photoshoot for most of my wedding packages) because it helps me understand your chemistry and who you are as a couple. While I was shooting this session, I was planning what photos I wanted to take at their wedding.
Plus, this was a great time to dive deeper into their wedding plans. So if you get anything out of this blog post, I hope it’s this: get the same photographer to do your engagement photos and your wedding! It’ll help your photographer and most importantly, it’ll help you. You won’t have to worry about different editing styles and you’ll really get to understand their process.
The Big Day: A Beautiful Nampa Wedding
Keith and Millie chose one of my favorite Nampa wedding venues, Still Water Hollow. It’s a romantic countryside venue that’s both indoor and outdoor with a classical little church and a pond. If you’re currently engaged and looking for venue, I highly recommend checking them out. If you do, don’t forget to mention that LaShay and Light Wedding Photography sent you.
As usual, I got to Still Water Hollow half an hour early. I like to get in this early because I want to take photos of the venue without there being a lot of people in the background. Little side note, notice how I put an emphasis on the colors. I really wanted to look colorful yet sophisticated.
Getting Ready
By the time I finished capturing the venue, it was time for me to take some flat-lays, photos of the rings, and of everyone getting ready.
Getting Ready is always a really emotional moment. I go in with a documentary approach and don’t stiffly pose everything. If needs be, I’ll gently guide them into what I call a “loose pose”. For example, I asked the Mother of the Bride to button up Millie’s dress. This created a lot of happy tears, perfect for the camera. Yes, it was posed but it was also natural.
First Look
Millie wanted to have a traditional “first look” where Keith first sees her walking down the aisle. However, she did want a first look with her dad.
I first took this photo on the balcony. I absolutely love this! This is more editorial than the the rest of the Getting Ready or the first look. I’ve found that having a mix of candid and posed images really elevates the entire wedding gallery and adds variety.
Reception
This is where I’m a fly on the wall. There’s only one instruction I give and it’s before anyone walks down the aisle: walk slowly. It’s my job to capture the progression of the wedding party and you won’t believe how many people I have speed-walk down the aisle. Besides, the longer the Bride walks down the aisle, the more photos I get of the Groom getting teary eyed.
Formals & Bridals
I’m not going to lie, this is my favorite part of the entire wedding. This is where I was really able to show that colorful yet dramatic style they were going for.
Reception and Exit
I had so much fun capturing Keith and Millie’s wedding. They were so sweet! If you like my photography style, feel free to reach out! I’d love to help you make your wedding as magical as possible. I serve all of Idaho, north Utah, Yellowstone, and Teton National Park, or where ever else love takes you. If you’re interested in the other vendors that helped with this wedding, check the links below.
xo chat soon, Kaylee
Vendor List
Photographer: LaShay and Light Wedding Photography | Venue: Still Water Hollow | Florist: Gerald’s Floral | Cake: Marsh Cakes | Bar Services & Beverages: Raising Our Bar | DJ: Sound Wave Events | Photobooth: Photo Booth Boise
Spirited Away Inspired Wedding Photography
Love Studio Ghibli? And you’re getting married? Here’s how I’d implement the ethereal, nostalgic feeling of the studio with Spirited Away inspired wedding photography.
Every wedding is beautiful in their own way. However, I can’t help but to crave more personal and customized weddings. Thankfully, as a wedding photographer, I have some power over that! My main goal is to show your unique love story, not some run-of-the-mill one. This blog post is the first in my new series I’m calling “Wedding Photography based on your Comfort Fandom”. I’m going to create poses and photo ideas inspired by your favorite show, book, movie, or anything else you can imagine. We’re starting off this series strong with making Spirited Away inspired wedding photography. Studio Ghibli is an amazing animation studio and many see Spirited Away as their Magnum Opus. Let’s combine the ethereal dream-like feel of Spirited Away with your wedding.
The Aesthetic
I don’t think anyone would argue that Spirited Away isn’t beautiful. From the vibrant colors to the composition, Spirited Away is a visual feast. When it comes to editing, I would try to implement the color scheme of the movie into my photos. I would make the pinks a little muted to match Chihiro’s outfit and tweak the blues to match the movie’s sky. I’d use a lot of the same composition found in the movie, specifically symmetry and people facing the camera directly.
Flowers are everything in Spirited Away Wedding Photography
Photo Credit: This is a scene from Spirited Away
It’s very telling that the very first scene in Spirited Away is of a bouquet from Chihiro’s friends’. Flowers are super important in this film. Thankfully, it’s not too hard to find flowers at a wedding. Instead of the cute note in the film, I placed the Bride’s wedding ring in the flowers. It’s a subtle nod to the film without it being in your face.
Photo Credit: This is a scene from Spirited Away
I couldn’t do Spirited Away wedding photography without doing something inspired by this iconic scene! When people think about this film, the first thing that might come to mind is Chihiro running through the Rhododendron flowers.
To pay homage to this clip, I would put the bridesmaids’ bouquets close to the bride’s face. (Bonus points if they’re Rhododendron flowers or even Hydrangeas. But you can really do this with any bouque.) When I took the photo on the right, I chose not to have her making any motion. Even though it’s not true to the scene, I wanted the photo to be happy and peaceful.
If I did want to do a photo with more movement, I’d have the Bride or Bride-figure run next to a flowering hedge.
The Bridge
Photo Credit: 1001 Angles Photography
Photo Credit: This is a scene from Spirited Away
Okay. Here’s where we need to open a can of worms. When making photos based on a film, location is vital. Your wedding venue might not have a red bridge, or a bridge at all, and these poses just won’t be possible. This can be said about other photos that require a prop or specific background. You can certainly get creative but location matters- a lot.
Now back to Spirited Away Wedding Photography. The red bridge in Spirited Away is not only beautiful but the perfect place to have some photos. Like in the right image, I would have the couple kissing. But a lot more can be done! A bridge is gorgeous place to show the couple holding hands and crossing it.
Another idea I have is inspired by Spirited Away. I couldn’t find a reference photo so please use your imagination. There’s a scene where Chihiro is leaning against the rail and looking down below. I think it would be so cute if the couple did that!
The Train Scene
Photo Credit: Orchid Photo Studio
Photo Credit: This is a scene from Spirited Away
This scene always reminds me of traditional Chinese wedding photos. It would be a great way to add some formality to your wedding gallery. Not only that, it could easily swing towards editorial photography. I’m just swooning at the thought! If you don’t want a super form look, it could easily be switched up with kissing, laughing at each other, etc.
This doesn’t have to be done on a train. It could be a subway, a bus, or even a limo. Just remember that whatever you choose, the aesthetic will change.
Water and the Railroad
Photo Credit: Mersadi Olson Photography
Photo Credit: This is a scene from Spirited Away
This is strictly for “trash the dress” shoots! Pro tip: doing this on your wedding anniversary would be so sweet! We’d go somewhere with calm, shallow water. My first thought is Bear Lake, Utah. Even though it’s a lake, its so big in some areas that you can’t land on the other side. Also, did I mention that I shoot there?
There’s a myriad of poses we could do here but the most true Spirit Away inspired wedding photography I could possible do is the bride walking away from the camera. Maybe, like Chihiro, they could be holding their shoes or a bouquet.
I don’t know of anywhere that has an underwater railroad but that’s what photoshop is for, right?
Spirited Away inspired Wedding Photography Conclusion
I don’t know about you, but I had a blast with this. If you’re getting married and want to incorporate Spirited Away into it, I hope this helps! I’ve also made a Pinterest board with a lot more Spirited Away inspiration if you need it. Always mention to your photographer any special movie, show, book, or anything else, that you want in your photos. If they’re anything like me, they’d be thrilled!
Speaking of which, if you’ve gotten this far, we’d probably get along perfectly. If you’re in need of a wedding photographer, message me!
What movie or fandom inspired Wedding Photography do you want to see next? Comment down below!
Until next time!
xo chat soon, Kaylee
Is 8 Hours of Wedding Photography Enough?
How much wedding coverage do you need? Here are the pros and cons of hiring a wedding photographer for 8 hours.
Let’s be honest, wedding planning can be confusing. When you add finding the perfect photographer and finding how much time you need them for, it can be a huge headache! But don’t worry. That’s why I’m here. As a professional wedding photographer, I know all about how much coverage you’ll need. In this article, we’ll be going over all the great and not-so-great aspects of having 8 hours of wedding photography.
The Good – Why 8 Hours of Wedding Photography is so popular!
There’s a reason why so many couples choose 8 hours of wedding photography. Typically, this is how long the average wedding is! With this amount of coverage, you won’t have to worry about your photographer leaving before you toss the bouquet or cut the cake. Your photographer would be there for most, if not all of the time.
You may be thinking, “I’m not having a micro-wedding, but it’s certainly not going to last 8 hours!” That’s another reason why so many couples choose this package. Most photographers, including me, want to be there at least an hour before the guests even arrive. This will give me time to get photos of the couple and wedding party getting ready, flat-lays, and of the venue. So even if you don’t plan to have your wedding last very long, this will give you plenty of time to get all of the photos you want.
Another thing to consider is how many guests you’re planning to have. A rule of thumb is to have an extra hour of wedding photographer for every 100 guests. Basically, the more people there the more time it will take to get photos of them. Whenever I’m at a wedding, I try to get a candid photo of every guest. If I don’t have enough time, I could miss out on a photo of your great-great-aunt that you would have loved! Not to mention how long group photos can take, this is a very important thing to consider!
Let’s do a quick overview of the main reasons you really should get 8 hours of wedding photography.
- The average wedding typically lasts 8 hours
- You won’t have to worry about your wedding photographer missing out on key moments at your wedding
- You’ll get Getting Ready photos, flat lays, and images of the venue.
- First look photos are easily achievable!
- There will be enough time for group photos of the guests (for about 150-200 guests)
The Bad – What about Pre-wedding Coverage?
I sort of mentioned this in “the good” but I want to make it clear. The average wedding is 8 hours. That means if you hired me, or any wedding photographer, to start taking photos right when the wedding starts, you’ll get the entire wedding celebration covered. When planning a wedding, this is typically the only thing the couple is thinking about. But like I said earlier, most wedding photographers like to come at least an hour before the wedding celebration starts. This is to get all of the detail shots, setting-the-scene pics, and getting ready images. Not to mention, we always want to be there early in case the wedding starts earlier than planned!
If those type of photos are important for you, or you have a cute pre-wedding tradition you want photographed, you should really take that into consideration. If you’re wanting the entire wedding covered as well as before the wedding starts, consider getting a wedding photography package with more hours. Or, if your wedding photographer is anything like me, they’ll have an a la carte system where you can add extra hours to an existing package.
If you don’t care about getting any of those photos and just want the photographer to come right before the wedding starts, you’re golden! 8 hours of wedding photography is perfect for you!
The Ugly – Eyes Bigger than Your Stomach
If your wedding ends before 8 hours, you’re most likely not going to get any money back. This is because your wedding photographer reserved that time for you and turned down any other photoshoot opportunities so they could dedicate 8 hours to your wedding. This can be really disappointing!
Now, some photographers may allow you to put that money you paid for those unused hours towards a couples photoshoot. For example, if your wedding ended an hour early, some photographers will allow you to use that hour for an anniversary shoot. But not all photographers do this. Talk with your photographer before you sign a contract and ask them!
If you know that your wedding just isn’t going to last 8 hours, maybe 4 hours is good for you! Not to brag, but I wrote an amazing article all about 4 hours of wedding photography. Check it out if 8 hours sounds like too much.
Is 8 hours enough for me?
I hope this has helped you find out if 8 hours of wedding photography is the perfect fit for you. If you want to do more research, I highly recommend this wonderful blog post by the Aisle Guide and this wedding timeline by Vivo Photography.
Looking for a cinematic and artistic wedding photographer in the Northwest US? Let’s talk! I’d love to go through your wedding timeline and find the best amount of coverage for you. Not in the Northwest? Let’s still talk! I want to help you have the best wedding experience possible and I’ll answer any questions you might have!
I hope this has helped you and I look forward to talking to you!
xoxo chat soon,
Kaylee from LaShay and Light Wedding Photography
Is 4 Hours of Wedding Photography Enough?
Let’s talk about why you should or shouldn’t get 4 hours of wedding photography.
When starting your wedding planning, it can be really confusing figuring out how much wedding photography you’ll actually need. If you book too many hours with your wedding photographer, you may end up overpaying. If you don’t book enough hours with your photographer, you may look back and really regret not getting some parts of your wedding captured. Take it from me. When I was a bride, I firmly believed that I only wanted bridals and one hour of wedding coverage just to get group photos. I wish I could go back in time and give myself a talking to, especially now that I’m a wedding photographer myself. So if you don’t want to take it from a wedding photographer, take it from a bride. Most of your budget should go towards wedding photography and videography. It’s an emotional investment for your future. Let me help you figure out if 4 hours of wedding photography is enough for you. Trust me, you’ll thank me later.
Plan out your timeline before you book a wedding photographer
If you haven’t guessed it already, this is so so so important. If you don’t know how long your wedding is going to last, you’re more likely to under or over book your photographer (or really any wedding vendor). It’s absolutely crucial to have your wedding timeline planned! The internet is full of timelines you can draw inspiration from. Brides has a wonderful post on timelines, I highly recommend looking into it.
Think into to the future. Which photos will you treasure?
Once you’ve planned out your timeline, it’s time to think about what photos you want. And you may really think you know what you want right now. But before you make any final decisions, I want you to imagine something for me. Imagine that you’ve been married for 30 years now. You’ve just got back home from a really hard and stressful day. As you kick your shoes off, plop on the couch, you see you wedding photo album out. You decide to pick it up and look through it. Which photos make you laugh? Cry? Reminisce? What are the photos that completely changes you mood and makes you run up and hug your spouse?
Now, no matter what, when, and where you imagined those photos, you now know what you want your photographer to capture. If you pictured smashing cake into your spouse’s face for that exercise I had you do, make sure your wedding photographer is there for that! Jot down a list of all the photos you imagined and compare that to your timeline. This should help you get a clear picture of how long you need your wedding photographer for.
4 hours of wedding photography is perfect for elopements and micro-weddings
Still not sure if 4 hours of wedding photography is enough? Let’s look at how many guests you’re planning to have. Typically the more wedding guests you have, the more wedding coverage you’ll need. Having a lot of people at a wedding typically draws out the individual events, such as catering, dancing, and greeting guests. If you’re planning to have a small wedding or an elopement, 4 hours could be perfect for you! With such a small number of guests, you can have your wedding done by that time. Again, like always, look at your timeline and see.
Great to cover the ceremony, group photos, and bridals
When you imagined those photos in your future wedding album, did you only see the ceremony, group photos, and some individual photos of you and your spouse? 4 hours is generally a good amount of time to capture all of that! If you pictured any other events such as photos of the grand exit, consider getting a wedding photography package with more coverage.
Is 4 hours enough for your wedding?
I hope by now, you’ll have a better sense of how much coverage you need for your wedding. If 4 sounds perfect, great! If you’re looking for a Southeast Idaho wedding photographer that offers 4 hours of coverage, let’s talk and see if we’re a good match! I’d love to chat with to you! Does 4 hours sound like too much or too little? Let’s still talk. I offer multiple packages with varying amounts of coverage. Not only that, I also offer fully customizable packages where you can decide exactly how many hours you want photographed.
I hope this post has helped you and I hope to hear from you soon!
xoxo chat soon,
Kaylee from LaShay and Light Wedding Photography
Eloping vs. Wedding: How to say “I do” right
The battle of the century: Eloping vs. Wedding. How do you know which one’s for you?
To elope or not to elope, for that is the question. Most likely, you have a bunch of people telling to do different things for your wedding. Perhaps your friends are telling you to elope because they’ve eloped and loved it. And maybe your family is pushing for a traditional wedding so all of your relatives can be there. There’s a lot to consider. So I’m giving you what I wish I had when I was engaged: a pros and cons list about eloping and traditional weddings. But before we go all eloping vs. wedding, let’s discuss what the differences are.
What does a traditional wedding look like?
A traditional wedding is basically a giant party with around a 100 guests or more. With there being so many guests, weddings tend to be very structured with a timeline and schedule.
What does an elopement look like?
Unlike a wedding, elopements have 20 guests or less. This leads to a more unstructured celebration with a lot of leeway.
Now that we’ve gotten the definitions of weddings and elopements, let’s get into the nitty gritty.
Wedding vs. Elopement: Elopement Pros
Pro #1: Cost
Because of the smaller guest count, elopements are a lot more cost effective than weddings. Instead of paying for hundreds of people, you’re only paying for 20. That’s an incredible price difference!
And because you’re only paying for 20 or so people, you can allocate you budget to higher quality vendors and experiences. Let me explain. Let’s say you have a budget of 20k. You could definitely have a traditional wedding with that budget. However, a lot of that budget is going to go into ensuring that there’s enough of everything for each guests. You’ll have to cut corners. But with an elopement, you wouldn’t be paying for hundreds of guests. You could spend that 20k budget on higher quality services. For example, let’s say you couldn’t afford a good photographer for your large wedding because you’ve spent the budget on the guests. With an elopement, you would be able to get an amazing photographer (cough, cough me).
So basically, you could have a lower quality wedding with a bunch of people or you could have a higher quality elopement with a small guest count.
Pro #2: Location
As sad as it is, you can’t have a giant wedding in a National Park. But you can have an elopement there. So if you’re an adventurous couple, this is an enormous reason to elope. Even if you’re not adventurous but you want beautiful photos, this is something to consider. Just imagine what your photos would look like! Maybe it’s just the elopement photographer inside of me but I’m drooling at the thought.
Pro #3: Intimacy
This Pro might be a con for you. If you’re extroverted and want a ton of people to celebrate your wedding with you, a small guest count sounds terrible. In that case, an elopement may not be the best option for you. But if you really value just a handful of people coming, an elopement will be amazing for you. So put this as a point for or against elopements in our little eloping vs. wedding battle.
Wedding vs. Elopement: Elopement Cons
Con #1: Peer Disapproval
This one sucks. I really wish I didn’t have to make this a con but I think this is something to consider. If you’re planning to elope, some friends, family, or acquaintances may be upset that they’re not invited. It may stir up some drama. Even though it would be amazing if everyone accepted your decisions, that doesn’t always happen. Before planning your elopement, sit down as a couple and discuss who you want to invite and who may cause issues if they’re not invited. This will help you prepare and decide if an elopement is for you.
Con #2: Less Wedding Gifts
If your really looking forward to getting wedding gifts, an elopement may not be for you. Sure, you can definitely send people your registry but people are a lot more likely to bring if they’re invited. With a small guest count, lots of gifts may not be in your future.
Con #3: Dirty Wedding Attire
This con is specifically with destination elopements. If you’re going to be hiking in your wedding dress, be prepared for a muddy train. Climbing up rocky hills and hiking through the woods can cause rips and tears in your beautiful outfit. Even if you decide to wear hiking attire and change near the ceremony location, your hair and makeup may be messed up. So if you mind getting dirty, consider hiring a hair and makeup artist to come along and change into your wedding attire after hiking.
Wedding Pros
Pro #1: All your loved ones
You don’t have to pick and choose for a wedding; you can invite as many people as you’d like. Traditional weddings are great if you have large families or if you’re just a social butterfly! If your extroverted and love having lots of people celebrate with, a wedding is the clear cut winner in this eloping vs. wedding battle.
Pro #2: Traditions
If you’re a lover of traditions like throwing the bouquet, first dance, and cutting the cake, you’ll get to enjoy all of those moments at a wedding. There may even be some family wedding traditions you can only do at a traditional wedding. For example, its a tradition in my family to have a picture slide show of the couple starting from baby pictures to wedding pictures. I couldn’t have had kept that tradition if I decided to elope in a forest or a desert with little to no cell reception.
Pro #3: Themes and Color Palettes
Maybe this was just me but I’ve always been obsessed with wedding themes and color palettes. For eloping vs. wedding, I think weddings really takes the cake when it comes to themes. With a traditional wedding, you can really dive into a theme. You can add it to your invitations to your table centerpieces. With an elopement, a theme may not be as clear or even possible.
Wedding Cons
Con #1: Price
My goodness, weddings are expensive! The cost of the average wedding is about $30,000. If you have that kind of money to spare, by all means, spend it! But for many, this may be a hard pill to swallow.
Con #2: Stress
If you’re not already stressing about the price of your wedding, don’t worry, there’s a lot else to stress about. Whether that’s people not RSVP’ing, finding vendors, or things just not going to plan, get prepared for a few stressful moments. But there is a plus to this con. Nothing like planning a wedding helps show you another side to your fiancé. You get to see how they handle stress and how you can help them.
Con #3: Time Flies
One of the most common regrets I hear from couples is that they didn’t have time to enjoy their own wedding. Couples often find themselves too preoccupied with making sure their guests are enjoying themselves and everything is going to plan, that they forget that this wedding is for them. Talking to all of your wedding guests is great but don’t forget to spend some time with your spouse!
Conclusion
Eloping vs. Wedding! Who wins?! It’s up to you. Seriously consider both. Ultimately, it depends on what you want to remember when you look back at your big day years from now. I hope this pros and cons list has helped you make a decision. If you want to do more research, which I highly advise, check out this amazing article on weddings and elopements.
And remember, no matter if you decide on a wedding or an elopement, I’ll always be there to photograph it.
xoxo chat soon,
Kaylee from LaShay and Light Photography
5 Best Free Wedding Planning Sites that Every Couple Needs
Engaged and don’t know what to do? Here’s the best free wedding planning sites for you.
You’re engaged! Now what? Planning a wedding (or elopement) can be crazy stressful. I get it; I’ve been there. There’s so much to do and you don’t know where to start. You might not even have a mood board yet. And that’s okay! As a former bride and a wedding photographer, I’ve used a lot of wedding planning sites and I’ve curated my top 5 best free wedding planning sites.
Just so you know, I haven’t been sponsored by any of these sites. This is just me showing you what I truly think are great sites that every couple should use.
Zola – Best Free Wedding Planning Site All-around
Zola guides you from being engaged to newlywed. Everything you need to do to plan a wedding or an elopement can be done on Zola. I could go on and on about why Zola is absolutely amazing but I’m going to narrow it down to three reasons: vendors, registry, and website.
Vendors on Zola
Before looking for vendors on Zola, you first take a small quiz. This quiz helps give you a personalized curated list of vendors you’d like. Not only that, it shows a list of why they matched with you, whether it be their prices, style, availability, or location. This makes finding vendors you genuinely like a breeze. Not only that, you can also see what vendors you’ve talked to and which ones you’ve booked. This keeps finding vendors organized.
Speaking of vendors, I’m also a vendor on Zola. Booking through Zola is incredibly easy and intuitive. Clients that have booked me through Zola have never had a complaint!
Registry on Zola
The wedding registry is amazing. To start off, Zola’s wedding registry has over 1,000 top brands to choose items from including KitchenAid, Delta Airlines, and Kate Spade. Wedding guests can purchase gifts, experiences, and fund your honeymoon all in one place. There’s free shipping, price matching, and registry gift exchange! But I haven’t even told you the best part. You get a 20% off discount your entire registry for six months after your wedding.
Website on Zola
Your registry can also be linked to your personal wedding website. Zola’s website builder has nearly 300 designs and layouts to choose from so they have an option for whatever style you’re going for! The website builder is easy to use and you can make a website in just a few minutes. It’s also very easy for guests to use so even great-grandma Rosie would be able to use it! Zola also offers wedding invitations that matches your website so you can have a running theme.
Wedding Chicks – Best for Wedding Inspiration
If you’re getting married and don’t know what you want to do, Wedding Chicks is one of the best free wedding planning sites you could go to. Wedding Chicks offers many of the same features Zola does, website builder, search for vendors, printing invitations, but their main focus is on wedding inspiration and a blog to help you plan your wedding.
They have a wide collection of posts all about planning a wedding. From Wedding Day Must-Haves For Every Emergency Kit to Shades of French Blue Wedding Ideas they have something for everyone.
Joy – Best Guest List
Joy is one of the best free wedding planning sites for big weddings. It has a registry and a website builder but the highlight of Joy is it’s guest list. Sorting and categorizing guests is a breeze! You can group guests into parties, send mass emails, track RSVPs, and -my favorite part- add tags. You can add tags to a guest or party to categorize them. For example, you can tag them as family, friend, maid of honor, from your side of the family or your sweetheart’s, and so much more. Once the guests RSVP, Joy’s guest list automatically updates with the new information. It’s great if you have a large family or just a bunch of friends you want to keep track of!
Carats & Cake – Best Style and Theme Options
You’ve got a very specific theme you want for your wedding; it could be edgy, industrial, or romantic. Whatever you’re going for, Carats & Cake has the vendors and the inspiration. Carats & Cake allows you to see photo galleries from dream weddings and also lists every vendor that participated in making that wedding happen. This makes finding your dream vendor a reality.
However, it’s important to note that Carats & Cake does not have website builder or a registry, it’s mainly used for finding vendors and inspiration.
Online Wedding Planning Assistant – Best Variety
Online Wedding Planning Assistant has all of the bells and whistles. You can find vendors, create a budget, make a website, form a wedding timeline, create a seating chart, and so much more. For being free, its an amazing resource that can be incredibly helpful. I love Online Wedding Planning Assistant but there are a few reasons why its not higher on the list. Creating a website on Online Wedding Planning Assistant is not intuitive and has very few customizations. It doesn’t have a registry and, this may seem arbitrary to some, I’m not a fan of their aesthetic. However, if you’re tech-savvy and want a site that offers great customizable seating chart planning and forming wedding timelines, this is a great option.
Conclusion
Those are my top five best free wedding planning sites! I hope this has helped you plan your wedding. If you’re using these websites or have used them in the past, let me know! I’d love to hear your experiences with them.
As a little side note, if you’re looking for photographers for your wedding, check me out and let’s talk about what I can do for you!
xo, Kaylee from LaShay and Light Photography
The Best Wedding Mood Board Inspiration
If you’re planning out your wedding mood board, here’s some of my favorite pictures for inspiration.
While I was shooting at my last photoshoot, I took some beautiful detail shots. As I was editing them, I started thinking how wonderful these would be for wedding mood board inspiration! So here are a few of my favorite photos from my last photoshoot. They’re warm and magical photos, perfect for wedding inspiration.
But before I go any further, I highly recommend reading this article on how to make an effective wedding mood board. Read that so you can use the photos I’m about to show you to their full extent.
I love these flowers so much! The deep burgundy and yellow are such a beautiful color combination. I highly recommend Brides to get bouquets like this! Or have your color scheme for your wedding be burgundy and yellow. Either way, this photo is definitely wedding mood board inspiration worthy.
Now this may just look like a closeup of the previous photo but don’t be fooled! A beautiful diamond wedding ring is in the flowers. You can’t have wedding mood board inspiration without showing a beautiful wedding ring and your color palette! So, I decided to put the two together?
But that’s not all I did. I was imagining a film-like, nostalgic wedding. So I added grain and matted the image to make it look like it was from an old movie. I love this look and I hope you do too.
This is the last bouquet photo, I promise. But I just needed a shot with the wedding ring, bouquet, and the wedding dress. It was a necessity! I love the brick pattern in the background, the texture in the flowers, and the lacey details in the wedding dress. How could I not share this one?
Maybe you’re a ballerina or maybe you just love ballet, but can you imagine a ballet themed wedding?! Just imagine ballerinas performing at your wedding. Yep, put that on your mood board. Ballet is just so elegant and romantic, everything you want your wedding to be like.
Now I’m going to take a wild guess and say that you like music and you’re going to play some music at your wedding. Was I right? Well, can you imagine having actual musicians at your wedding singing the sweetest serenades for you and the love of your life? I thought so.
I hope these photos helped you determine what you want in your wedding! If this has helped you decide that you want someone like me as your photographer, well, you can always contact me here on my website!
Bridals at The Venue in Rigby, Idaho
If you’re in Rigby looking for a place for Bridals, check out The Venue!
Rigby, Idaho has some beautiful locations for Bridals. If your looking for an indoor venue with a chic, urban, and rustic flair, The Venue is what you’re looking for. I shot some bridals in Rigby, Idaho at the Venue and it was so beautiful! I really loved the brick texture and large windows at the Venue so I took most of my photos there. This bride and groom were so darn cute! I barely had to pose them for these bridals.
As you may have noticed, I’ve really been focusing on my editing style. I’ve been trying new things and this is what I’ve gotten. My style may continue to evolve but I’m happy with what I have right now!
The bride had some beautiful flowers in her bouquet. I new I just had to get some photos of it! This is one of my favorite poses to do for bridals and this one really shined. It’s so simple and romantic. I love it!
For some people, bridals -or photos in general- can make them nervous or camera shy. But this bride and groom thrived being shot! I barely had to pose them! They were so cute and in love.
As much as I loved the bricks at the venue in Rigby, Idaho, there was a beautiful setting sun outside and I just needed those sun flares! So, I pulled my bride and groom outside and snapped a few shots. So worth it.
I had so much fun shooting these bridals in Rigby, Idaho. The Venue was beautiful, the bride and groom were beautiful, everything was beautiful! If you’re interested in getting some amazing bridals, I recommend The Venue. If you’re looking for a photographer in Rigby, well, I’m your girl.
Wyoming Bridals
Beautiful bridals in beautiful Wyoming!
A few weeks ago, I had the amazing opportunity to go to String Lake, Wyoming for bridals. It was my first time going to String Lake and I instantly fell in love. Getting to photograph this beautiful bride was an absolute dream. The location was beautiful, the bride was beautiful, you can’t get anything better than that. If you’re looking for a place for an elopement or bridals, definitely go to String Lake, Wyoming! For these two bridal photos I had the bride interact with her surroundings and her outfit.
For these two bridal photos I had the bride interact with her surroundings and her outfit. In the first one, I had her holding her hat and looking towards the lake. With the next one, I had her lift up her dress.
It’s super important to get some close ups too! In this photo, I had her look away and hold her bouquet.
Conclusion
I loved String lake, Wyoming! It was incredibly beautiful and I can’t wait to go again!
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